Why You Keep Talking Yourself Out of What You Want

Have you ever had a completely valid reason for not doing the thing you said you wanted?

The timing wasn’t right.

You needed more information.

You were too busy.

You wanted to think about it a little longer.

And maybe all of that was true.

But what if it wasn’t the whole story?

In this bonus Meetup, we’re going to explore what happens in the space between:

“I want this.”

and

“Maybe not yet.”

Because sometimes the thing that keeps us stuck doesn’t look like fear or avoidance.

It looks like a really good reason.

We’ll talk about why we can know exactly what we want and still find ourselves overthinking, hesitating, procrastinating, or talking ourselves out of the next step.

We’ll explore questions like:

• What happens right before you pull back?
• Why can a perfectly reasonable explanation keep you from seeing the deeper pattern?
• What might actually change if you got what you wanted?
• What could part of you be trying to protect by staying where you are?
• And how do you tell the difference between a genuine reason to pause and an old pattern quietly making the decision for you?

This won’t be a big formal workshop.

It’s a shorter, more conversational Bonus Meetup with a few simple ideas, reflection questions, and lots of room for discussion.

If you’re a capable, self-aware woman who keeps thinking:

“I know what I want… so why do I keep talking myself out of it?”

this conversation is for you.

ONLINE | Monday, September 21

Come curious. You may leave looking at some of your “very good reasons” a little differently.